"In life, there are many moments of happiness and sorrow,
but life continues to move forward because humans cannot be stagnant. Therefore, we cannot cling to one sorrow like a necklace and neither can we rely solely on one happiness. Instead, life compels us to strive for improvement and we learn to navigate life's challenges. However, as we age, we learn five lessons of life that most people cannot grasp early on.
We often take the
love of our life partners, friends, and family members for granted, assuming
that maintaining relationships doesn't require any effort. However, the reality
is quite the opposite. Relationships are like flowers that require timely
attention, care, and nurturing. To sustain relationships, we must invest time
and make sacrifices. It's only later in life that we realize we've neglected
our invaluable treasures of relationships in our busy lives and lost them.
Relationships may exist over time, but they become lifeless entities devoid of
any essence.
Another crucial point
is that we cannot take care of our families until we ourselves are healthy,
happy, and content. Both physical and mental well-being necessitate regular
exercise, walking, yoga, swimming, or any physical activity that keeps us
healthy. However, despite understanding this, our entire lives pass by, and we
only pay attention to ourselves when we involuntarily become victims of
illness, and walking or exercising becomes a remedy for us.
Our friends, loved
ones, and family members want our time, but each of us has become so busy
nowadays that we don't have time to give to anyone. Even on holidays and
festivals, we just exchange messages. In the race for money, we've progressed
so much that the only concept of real happiness for us is money. Although money
is crucial in human life, spending time with friends and spending quality time
with our family is even more important.
Every day brings us a
new message; we can learn something new every day and enhance our knowledge and
skills. We can present ourselves as better individuals in society. It's a
misconception that we're now matured and can't do anything more. The truth is
that there's never a delay in learning something new every day. We're all human
and there's no limit to developing the best qualities in us. For believers, every
day is a celebration when they haven't done anything wrong.
Humans are social
animals; we can't do anything alone, but we also realize much later how
dependent we are on others for many things. Just as we have many needs tied to
others, people also have many needs tied to us. Learning the art of
conversation is truly admirable, and it's also an emotional skill in how we
express ourselves in certain situations and make people feel our presence.
Successful individuals learn these five lessons of life before spending time so
that they can avoid hardships in life."
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